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Do your relationships make you feel like you’re trapped in a mental maze with no map, no exit, just endless twists that tighten the harder you try to escape?
Every decision feels life-or-death.
Every conversation replays like a psychological ambush.
Every relationship becomes a riddle with no right answer.
And around every corner? A monster.
Not a cute gremlin hiding under your bed—but a raging beast rooted in real cognitive distortions:
Regret. Rejection. Shame… and the question, “What Did I Do Wrong?”
They wait in the shadows, whispering what-ifs, magnifying every flaw, and feeding the fear that you’re not good enough, lovable enough, or safe.
It’s not just in your head—it shows up in your texts, your tone, your silence. It pushes people away without you realizing it.
This isn’t just overthinking—it’s a destructive habit that, left unchecked, erodes your ability to connect, communicate, and trust.
It turns love into anxiety, safety into fear, and intimacy into silence.
But there is a way out.
This book is your map.
The Practical Guide to Stop Overthinking & Fix Your Relationships is a science-backed, deeply human blueprint to break the spiral, calm your mind, and finally feel safe inside your relationships again.
Written by Matt Tomporowski, this book blends evidence-based psychology with lived experience in a way no other guide does—because this isn’t theory for him. It’s personal.
💔 What Makes This Book Different?
It starts with heartbreak.
Just days before a once-in-a-lifetime trip to South America, Matt’s girlfriend vanished emotionally—pulling away with vague excuses and silence until it was clear: she wasn’t coming.
So he got on the plane alone.
He spent the next year traveling across three continents… and spiraling inside his own head.
The Galapagos. Singapore. London. The Alps.
Everywhere he went, the same questions followed him:
Why did she leave? What did I do wrong? What’s wrong with me?
That mental maze nearly cost him his peace, his self-worth, and his ability to trust again.
But eventually, Matt found his way out—and this book is the path he used to get there.
Inside, he shares the exact tools that helped him interrupt the loops, rebuild emotional safety, and reconnect with real intimacy—so you don’t have to stay stuck like he did.
🧠 What You’ll Learn:
• Tools you can use tonight to stop spiraling in real-time
• How to stop sabotaging connection with overanalysis and fear
• A decision-making reset to break out of indecision and act with clarity
• How to say what you mean—even when your heart is racing
• A mindset shift to trust yourself—and others—again
🎯 What’s at Stake If You Don’t Act?
• Misread messages become avoidable fights
• You hold back your real self—and connection dies quietly
• You wake up wondering how everything fell apart
Overthinking doesn’t just steal your peace. It slowly dismantles your relationships—until there’s nothing left to fix.
🎁 Bonus Tools You’ll Wish You Had Sooner:
🗓️ 21-Day Overthinking Reset Challenge – Small daily shifts for big clarity and connection
💬 Proven Relationship Communication Scripts – Word-for-word guides to stop misunderstandings and speak your truth
🚨 Overthinking Emergency Kit – 5-minute tools to quiet racing thoughts anytime, anywhere
You’re not broken. You’re not too much. You’re not alone.
You’re just stuck in a loop no one taught you how to escape—until now.
This book is your map.
Scroll up and grab your copy—before another conversation becomes another regret.
From the Publisher
Stop Agonizing Over Every Text
Chapter 3 shows how to calm racing thoughts, stop second-guessing texts, and finally feel peace of mind even when you don’t get a quick reply. End the spiral of anxiety.
Say What You Feel Without Fear
In Chapter 6, The Overthinking Emergency Kit, you’ll learn to express yourself to your partner without triggering shutdowns or fights. Speak your truth and be heard, not dismissed.
Set Boundaries Without Guilt
Chapter 9 helps you stop people-pleasing and resenting your partner by creating clear emotional boundaries. Protect your peace without pushing them away.
Rebuild Trust and Emotional Safety
Chapter 10, Your Sustainable Growth Plan gives you a clear path to achieve the lasting closeness and connection you’ve been craving with your partner.
Publisher : Tricycle Games Inc.
Publication date : April 18, 2025
Language : English
Print length : 230 pages
ISBN-10 : 1068902957
ISBN-13 : 978-1068902956
Item Weight : 8.1 ounces
Dimensions : 5 x 0.52 x 8 inches
Part of series : Let Go, Heal, Grow & Love
Best Sellers Rank: #1,450,631 in Books (See Top 100 in Books) #1,029 in Popular Neuropsychology #3,254 in Interpersonal Relations (Books) #3,666 in Love & Romance (Books)
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