Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal With People Who Try to Control You


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Learn how to “break the spell” of control with this bestseller hailed by Oprah Winfrey. Controlling People reveals the thought processes of those who try to control others and provides a “spell-breaking” mind-set for those who suffer this insidious manipulation.

Does this sound like someone you know?

*Always needs to be right
*Tells you who you are and what you think
*Implies that you’re wrong or inadequate when you don’t agree
*Is threatened by people who are “different”
*Feels attacked when questioned
*Doesn’t seem to really hear or see you

If any of the above traits sounds familiar, help is on the way! In Controlling People, bestselling author Patricia Evans, tackles the “controlling personality,” and reveals how and why these people try to run other people’s lives. She also explains the compulsion that makes them continue this behavior—even as they alienate others and often lose those they love.

Controlling People helps you unravel the senseless behavior that plagues both the controller and the victim. Can the pattern or spell be broken? YES, says the author.

By understanding the compelling force involved, you can be a catalyst for change and actually become a spell-breaker. Once the spell is broken and the controller sees others as they really are, a genuine connection can be forged and healing can occur.

Should you ever find yourself in the thrall of someone close to you, Controlling People is here to give you the wisdom, power, and comfort you need to be a stronger, happier, and more independent person.

ASIN ‏ : ‎ B001UISGUC
Publisher ‏ : ‎ Adams Media
Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 1, 2003
Edition ‏ : ‎ First
Language ‏ : ‎ English
File size ‏ : ‎ 507 KB
Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Print length ‏ : ‎ 322 pages
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1440501906
Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Best Sellers Rank: #149,085 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store) #61 in Psychology of Personalities #136 in Interpersonal Relations (Kindle Store) #149 in Popular Psychology Personality Study
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Customers say

Customers find the book enlightening and helpful in understanding controlling behavior, with one review noting how it clearly articulates the method and thinking behind such behavior. Moreover, the book receives positive feedback for its life-changing impact, with one customer mentioning how it helped them take important next steps. Additionally, the writing quality and readability receive mixed reviews, with some finding it brilliantly written while others say it’s not spectacular.

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